By Tim Aiello, MA, LPC, NCC, ADHD-CCSP

Living with ADHD and anxiety presents a unique set of challenges—challenges that I know all too well both as a therapist specializing in ADHD and as someone who experiences intense anxiety. In this article, I share evidence-based insights from current research on ADHD, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Polyvagal Theory, along with somatic resources that can help reduce anxiety in adults with ADHD. While medications and traditional coping skills are critical, integrating these approaches offers a more comprehensive path to improved emotional regulation and overall well-being.
Understanding the Interplay Between ADHD and Anxiety
ADHD is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder that goes far beyond difficulties with attention and hyperactivity. It affects executive functioning, impulse control, and emotional regulation (Barkley, 2015). Anxiety, which frequently co-occurs with ADHD, can further complicate these challenges by amplifying emotional reactivity and stress. Research indicates that adults with ADHD are at a higher risk for developing anxiety disorders, making it essential to address both conditions simultaneously (Biederman et al., 2006).
In my own practice and personal experience, I have observed that the combination of ADHD and anxiety often creates a cycle of heightened emotional distress. Recognizing this interplay is the first step toward developing effective strategies for managing both conditions.
The Role of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT is a well-established, evidence-based treatment that has shown considerable effectiveness in helping adults with ADHD manage anxiety. By focusing on identifying and restructuring negative thought patterns, CBT enables individuals to develop practical skills for emotional regulation and problem-solving. Knouse and Safren (2010) highlight that CBT not only improves attention and organizational skills but also helps reduce anxiety by teaching patients how to reframe stress-inducing thoughts.
In my own journey, integrating CBT techniques into my daily routine has been transformative. Learning to challenge negative self-talk and replace it with constructive, balanced thoughts has significantly reduced my anxiety levels, allowing me to better manage my ADHD symptoms.
Insights from Polyvagal Theory
Polyvagal Theory, developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, offers a valuable framework for understanding the connection between our autonomic nervous system and emotional regulation. According to Polyvagal Theory, the state of our vagal tone—the activity of the vagus nerve—plays a critical role in how we experience stress and recover from it (Porges, 2007; Porges, 2011). When the vagal system is well-regulated, individuals tend to exhibit greater resilience against stress and improved emotional stability.
For those of us with ADHD and anxiety, polyvagal-informed strategies can be particularly beneficial. Techniques that promote vagal regulation, such as deep breathing exercises, mindfulness practices, and gentle movement, help shift our nervous system from a state of hyperarousal to one of calm and social engagement. I have found that incorporating these strategies into my self-care routine not only alleviates anxiety but also enhances my ability to remain present and focused.
Somatic Resources to Reduce Anxiety
Somatic approaches emphasize the powerful connection between the body and the mind. For adults with ADHD and anxiety, somatic resources can be an essential adjunct to traditional therapies. Techniques such as mindful movement, yoga, body scans, and deep breathing exercises work by grounding us in our physical sensations and reducing the physiological symptoms of anxiety.
Research by van der Kolk (2014) and others suggests that somatic practices help modulate the body’s stress response, ultimately leading to improved emotional regulation. In my experience, intentional movement—whether through yoga, brisk walks, or other forms of exercise—has been a game changer. These practices not only boost my mood and energy but also promote a state of calm that carries over into daily tasks and interactions.
In addition to structured exercise, simple somatic techniques like progressive muscle relaxation or even a brief mindful check-in with the body can provide immediate relief during moments of high anxiety. By integrating these practices with CBT and polyvagal-informed strategies, we can create a holistic toolkit that supports both mind and body.
Integrating a Holistic Approach
Managing ADHD and anxiety effectively requires a multifaceted approach that addresses both cognitive and physiological dimensions. While medications and conventional therapies remain important, integrating CBT, Polyvagal Theory, and somatic resources can significantly enhance our ability to regulate emotions and reduce anxiety. This comprehensive approach not only improves focus and organization but also fosters resilience in the face of stress.
As a therapist and someone who experiences these challenges firsthand, I am a firm believer in the power of combining these evidence-based strategies. They have allowed me to cultivate a deeper sense of calm and presence in my own life, and I have seen similar benefits in many of my patients.
Conclusion
ADHD and anxiety often coexist, creating a complex interplay that impacts nearly every facet of life. By embracing a holistic approach that incorporates CBT, insights from Polyvagal Theory, and somatic resources, we can develop a more robust strategy for managing these conditions. Although the supplements, therapies, and techniques discussed here offer significant benefits, they are meant to complement—not replace—traditional treatments. This article is for informational purposes only and does not substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider before making any changes to your treatment plan.
References
Barkley, R. A. (2015). Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Handbook for Diagnosis and Treatment (4th ed.). Guilford Press.
Biederman, J., Mick, E., & Faraone, S. V. (2006). Age-dependent decline of symptoms of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder: Impact of remission definition and symptom type. American Journal of Psychiatry, 163(10), 1633–1638.
Knouse, L. E., & Safren, S. A. (2010). Current status of cognitive behavioral therapy for adult attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder. Psychiatric Clinics of North America, 33(3), 497–509.
Porges, S. W. (2007). The polyvagal perspective. Biological Psychology, 74(2), 116–143.
Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W.W. Norton & Company.
van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Penguin Books.
This article is provided for informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment. Please consult a licensed healthcare professional before making any changes to your treatment regimen.
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